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Should i date older men?

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I will be 29 years old this September 2nd (this coming Monday?). Should i date older men? Or is 29 still too young? I’m only confused because of rejection. What should i do?! o.0

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Why don’t you do what you WANT to do? We can’t help you as we have our own opinions on what you should and shouldn’t do. But really it is your thing to decide.

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i thought people answered this in a thread you posted.

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^ we already answered you in your first thread. Also it’s not our choice on whether you should dste older men or not. It’s your life.

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I’m just stressed out & confused by my family, they have full control over me. I have to “follow” their “rules.” That’s why i am like this!! I’m sorry!! :(

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you’re 29, isn’t it your life now? why are you still living for them?

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Yeah, you’re a full blown adult. So it’s your choice. It’s not a question of what you SHOULD do but what you WANT to do.
I get that it’s confusing, but if you like someone I don’t see the harm in going on a single date to see if it works. A date is not a lifetime commitment. You can go in a date and decide never to talk to someone again.
Though, based on what you said in your previous threads, it sounds like these men are harassing you. Don’t date someone just because you feel pressured to date them. Date them if you like them, and for no other reason. It’s easy to confuse the feeling of liking someone and the feeling of liking the fact that someone likes you.

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No offense but I don’t know if a pet website is where you’d get the answer for this…

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i have one question: havent you BEEN 29? i thought your first thread(on your old account) was talking about how it was your 29th birthday? i could be wrong though. my memory is garbage

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I’m gonna say something and I don’t mean it rude in anyway:

Girl, with all due respect, on all of your accounts you have had pretty much the same issues. Like letting your family decide your every move and feeling. And every time people tell you the same things: you’re an adult and not everything has to be this huge life-altering decision. Just be who you want to be and live YOUR life. Nothing is set in stone and your subject to change what you think at any time. It’s not like this thread will help you decide if you ONLY want to date older men. And who said it has to be either younger or older? Date who you want (within legal boundaries). This has been said to you several times and I just don’t understand why you don’t seem to take into consideration the advice we’ve given you. I understand it’s hard to go against your parents’ wishes but you’re 29. It’s well within your rights to date whoever you want to and be whatever you want to be.

Again, no disrespect. I hope you figure things out.

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How about dating someone you like & respect who likes & respect you instead of focusing on age?

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How about dating someone you like & respect who likes & respect you instead of focusing on age?

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Okay. I’m sorry!! :( :’(

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Personally dating someone close within your age range has best because of the interests that can be shared. Ive dated guys closer and somewhat further than my age and it wasn’t intentional at all. We just really cared for each other and loved the same things. I wouldn’t focus on age, but instead focus on who you’re drawn to. You’ll instantly know within a short period of time if the person is right for you, but zeroing in on a specific trait won’t guarantee happiness. You need to look at the person as a whole and if they could offer potential and to BETTER yourself. What could they add to you? Focus on those things.

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@Alue360
Okay.

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Of course, I wish you the best.

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@Alue360
Thanks.